A flower does not think of competing with the flower next to it. It just blooms.
Each of us is unique.
So it makes no sense to try to be like someone else, or to compare ourselves to others. We wouldn’t try to turn an apple into an orange because we think one is better or more beautiful than the other. So we do we do this with people?
The absolute best thing you can do for someone else is to support and encourage them in being their authentic self. And the greatest gift you can give to yourself is to do exactly the same for you.
In this life, just being yourself—being your best self—is all you have to do.